One of the comments I often see on blog posts describing particularly difficult or time-consuming DIY projects is something to the effect of “Why?”
For example, recently Raine @ Bucilla asked in regard to my mini side table, “This is a cool idea, and very ingenious, but wouldn’t be easier and simpler to just buy a mini side table right from the start ? :)”
That’s a good question, Raine. I’m glad you asked. (BTW, thanks for the compliment.)
There are many reasons to DIY. Below are just a few. Let’s continue using the side table as an example.
Here are just a few cases when DIY might not be in your best interest.
Deciding to build a side table yourself, instead of buying one, is a personal decision. You have to weigh the pros and cons that pertain to your situation. No one else can do that for you.
Personally, reason #7 (above) for doing it yourself weighs heavily in my to-DIY-or-not-to-DIY decisions. For me, there are few things in life more rewarding than a job well done. For other folks, that wouldn’t even be a consideration.
Because choosing how one spends one’s time is so personal, I never judge someone for spending countless hours building something that I wouldn’t deem justified. I’m not qualified to decide whether an endeavor was worth the time and effort for him/her. I can appreciate his/her work or not. It doesn’t matter because he/she didn’t build it for me. And whether that person wasted his/her time is none of my business.
No one can please everyone 100 percent of the time. If you find yourself among those who are not pleased with a certain creator’s work, you don’t have to watch it, read it, listen to it, look at it. As in a museum, just walk away and find something else you can appreciate. There’s no need to ridicule him/her because you can’t understand why everyone else seems to love his/her work.
I’ve thought about this topic a lot lately because my time was increasingly being filled up with things I would rather not be doing, and I was tired of unfinished projects around my apartment.
So I eliminated my commute by moving closer to my day job. I cut out so-called time sucks such as Hulu and Netflix. And I made some difficult decisions when decorating my new place.
Instead of building everything from scratch (which is my first inclination), I found inexpensive substitutes and splurged here and there. The result? I still have unfinished projects, but the list is shorter and more manageable. I now have time to pursue more fun blog projects (and my craft book!). And my apartment already feels like a home.
Over the next several weeks I’ll share some of the purchases I recently made—the bargains and splurges alike. I won’t show you my whole apartment yet because it’s still a work in progress. But I hope you like the preview. And if you don’t, feel free to move along.
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July 30, 2012 at 2:00 am
For me personally a DIY project comes down to two main things: big bang for my buck – I can make something I could never afford to buy and making something totally new that I’ve never seen before and the immense satisfaction that comes from that. I’m honest on my blog about not wanting to spend hours cross stitching a pillow I could buy for $10 (unless of course I designed it myself and it meant something special to me) or knocking off a bracelet that I could get for a few dollars at Forever21. I love the DIY posts where the blogger tells me how long it took them to make something and maybe just maybe they wouldn’t do it again. There are so many great DIY projects out there and I want to spend my time and money wisely doing the ones that I can turn into something special.
July 30, 2012 at 3:17 am
*applause
I’ve had countless inquiries as to “why don’t you have more artwork on your walls?!” The reason is, I’ve collected tons of old frames, and I want to refinish the exact right one for each space… in the exact right color… and fill it with the extra right photo… for ME. I don’t want to put someone else’s product in MY space! And I’m busy! So I do one now and then when all those stars align!
“Because I get to choose what I do.” End of story!
July 30, 2012 at 10:30 am
To diy or not is really up to that person. I love diy myself but sometimes I just don’t have the time. I’m with you I don’t judge one who enjoy their craft. Thanks for sharing
July 30, 2012 at 5:10 pm
I get asked this question a lot by friends and family – thanks for a great response! For me, #4 and #7 resonate the most – in a world where work is days filled with powerpoint presentations and emails and meetings, it gives me so much satisfaction and joy to sit down and make something tangible and concrete with my own hands (and several tools!)
July 30, 2012 at 11:14 pm
For the J O Y of it ! ! ! ! ! Yes! That is exactly why!!!! I went to Michael’s recently to buy a wreath form to make a 4th of July wreath. I was excited and inspired by another crafter’s craft which I was going to take and tweak and turn it into a Firework Explosion wreath. At the check out counter my wreath form plus all the other “necessities” for future but as yet unknown craft projects rung up to about $80. I looked up and sighed as I swiped my check card & saw some large 4th of July wreaths on sale for $40. Shoot! I coulda just bought one (or two) of those ready made wreaths for what I spent trying to make just one! But oh my goodness! I had soooo much fun making that wreath! And it turned out soooo much better than that ready made wreath! I think that anybody who would even ask that question probably does not have a creative bone in their body! This is the same person who says “You’re so creative.” in that tone of voice that makes it sound like a complaint instead of a compliment. Go see my Fireworks Explosion wreath at: https://www.facebook.com/media/set/?set=a.3827811367235.2149627.1036342162&type=3&l=8b9fd61991
and then ask me that question! :D
August 4, 2012 at 2:14 am
I’m so glad you wrote this! People keep asking me the same question, and I felt so alone when I answered them almost the same way as you did here. I felt alone because I thought my answer was not sufficient, but as I read your post, I realised that I was right :) I do it for the joy, for saving money, for creating, experimenting with new techniques, for “figuring out how he could do that?!”, and because I love the feeling of concentrating on something creative. It is like meditating or sports, I just forget about everything else and focus on ONE thing at a time. I practically had to make my blog “private” because of the negative comments I got who were making fun of me. It was a really tough decision, as I liked sharing my DIYs, but now it is peaceful again, even though I have about 8 readers. Anyway, thanks for the great post and keep on DIYing :)
September 24, 2012 at 3:19 am
I agree with 4 and 7 absolutely!! I was examining someone’s cute bag to see if I could make something similar, and that someone asked me why bother sewing it when it costs less than $10? :/
October 1, 2012 at 7:49 am
This is a great question, and the answer for me has changed over the decades. When we bought out first house and our kids were young we did everything ourselves. It was new, fun, and gave us so much pride in a job well done. In our second home, we were in the throws of raising two young boys, I was working in a stressful job from home, and doing all the things we moms do and I really didn’t want the house torn up for weeks, if not months. That’s when we found a great contractor to do all the remodeling and it was the best thing we ever did – at the time. I still did – and still do – lots of DIY household projects because that’s who I am – I love to create and work with my hands (and tools!). I will be installing laminate flooring in my son’s room next week, just because I have the time now that I’m sort of retired. And my husband, even though he is busier in his career than ever, still manages to pump out a project or two, like the new wood outdoor table he made last month. But the big stuff . . . we’re over that.
January 21, 2013 at 4:32 am
I think the argument of when to do DIY and when not to do is all down to experience really. I spent a lot of time doing DIY when I moved into my first home. In retrospect, some of the things I built were both dodgy and didn’t look good so I learned from that the things I should do myself and what should be left to the experts. I would suggest that tiling bathrooms and plastering living rooms is certainly best left to the experts – after all it is important to get the bathroom tiles right first time or you could come across many issues in the future.
I will always have a go at new things though – you never know how capable you are until you try it once!